I’d like to take a moment and get a few things off my chest.

As I sat at home tonight (like I always do) and spent A LOT of time cleaning, I was also spending A LOT of time thinking.

This thinking I did pissed me off.

It made me realize there are too many things that I am pissed about that I haven’t expressed to the free world and I have decided to do so now.

As I was scrubbing down the breakfast bar @ 4am it made me think about the kids and their breakfast/lunch account at school.  From there I began to think about just how fucking easy Sperm Donor #1 and Sperm Donor #2 have it and how absolutely AMAZING Hardworking Hubby is.

See, here’s is how I looked at things:

Hardworking Hubby is the main source of income in our home (I receive child support but really how do you put a price on supporting your kids?)

Hardworking Hubby has medical, dental and vision insurance on every member of this family.

Hardworking Hubby has been there on the 1st day of school since 2006 for Zman & the Drama Queen. (That’s 4 first days!)

Hardworking Hubby is always by my side when it comes to helping Zman & the Drama Queen with homework and other school tasks.

Hardworking Hubby has been to every school play, musical or other performance since joining our family.

Hardworking Hubby has been to every parent/teacher conference with me.

Hardworking Hubby attends every baseball, soccer and football game as long as his work schedule allows and we don’t have 2 things going on at once.  Should that be the case, we text updates back and forth.

Hardworking Hubby will be there for everything we have coming up such as dance recitals, tae kwon do, cheer camp etcetera.

Hardworking Hubby is there for the kids when someone gets hurt, is upset, wants 1 on 1 time, to tuck them into bed, to read a story and to hug & kiss them goodnight.

Hardworking Hubby keeps a roof over our heads, food in our fridge, light & heat in our house, money in the breakfast/lunch accounts and so many more things that I could list for days.

So, there is a very, very brief glimpse at what Hardworking Hubby does for our family and my 2 oldest children that are not biologically his.

Now, lets take a glimpse at what Zman’s biological father does for him:

Pays child support (again, how do you put a price on supporting your kid?)

Sees his son maybe a total of 4 days a month—-as of today, he hasn’t seen him since August 9th.

Ummmmmm……help me out here cause I’ve got nothing else.

He doesn’t attend school events, sporting events, insure his child, help with any school or extracurricular costs.

Nope….I think that what I have listed is all that he does.

Moving on to the Drama Queen’s Sperm Donor (#2)…..he is not worthy of listing that  fat her (yes, that is an intentional typo) word in any mention of him.

Again, he pays child support (do I really need to remind you that you cannot put a price on something like this? You never know how much it will cost to support a kid!)

Oh wait—–that’s it.  That’s all he does.

He does not do a damn thing for my daughter.  Yes, let me say that again—– MY DAUGHTER!!!

Now, let me ask you a few things:

1. Do you think I have every right to be pissed off?

2.  Who do you think is the better male role model for my kids?

3.  Wouldn’t you agree that my Hardworking Hubby is an absolutely amazing and incredible man and I am probably one of the luckiest girls in the whole universe?

Let me know your thoughts!

**Just to clarify, the intentions of this post were not to be taken as my wanting Sperm Donor #1 & Sperm Donor #2 to see their children more or actually attend the aforementioned events.  The intent of this post was to prove that 1.  You cannot put a price tag on what it costs to support a child ie: 17% and 2. That Zman & Drama Queen and I are INCREDIBLY lucky to have Hardworking Hubby as part of our family and that he has been more of a father to my children then Sperm Donor #1 & Sperm Donor #2 HAS EVER BEEN!!!

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